Helping children understand the difference between good touch and bad touch is a crucial part of keeping them safe and confident. Teaching this in a gentle, clear way empowers kids to protect themselves and speak up if something feels wrong. Here are key points to guide this important conversation.
- Explain What “Good Touch” Means
Good touch is any touch that makes them feel safe, happy, and comfortable—like hugs from family, a pat on the back, or holding hands with someone they trust.
- Describe “Bad Touch” Clearly
Bad touch is any touch that makes them feel scared, confused, or uncomfortable—especially touches on private parts or any touch that feels wrong, even if someone they know does it.
- Teach About Private Parts
Explain that private parts are the areas covered by underwear, and no one should touch these parts except to help with health or hygiene, like a parent or doctor—but only with permission and usually with a trusted adult present.
Source: https://yourdost.com/blog/2015/10/snapshots-teach-children-about-good-touch-and-bad-touch.html
- Encourage Saying “No”
Empower children to say “No” firmly if someone tries to touch them in a way that feels bad or makes them uncomfortable, even if it’s a family member or friend.
- Stress the Importance of Telling a Trusted Adult
Tell children they should always tell a trusted adult—like a parent, teacher, or caregiver—if they ever experience bad touch or someone makes them feel uneasy.
- Reassure Them It’s Not Their Fault
Make sure kids know that if bad touch happens, it’s never their fault, and they won’t get in trouble for speaking up.
- Practice What to Do
Role-play scenarios with your child on how to respond to bad touch or unwanted advances. This builds confidence to act if needed.
- Use Age-Appropriate Language
Keep the conversation simple and clear, matching your child’s age and understanding. Avoid scary or confusing terms.
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- Repeat the Conversation Often
Personal safety is an ongoing topic. Regularly revisit good touch and bad touch lessons so your child feels comfortable discussing it anytime.
- Create a Safe, Open Environment
Make sure your child knows they can always talk to you about anything, no matter how big or small, without fear or shame.
